Quick Modesty Checklist Before You Step Out

Quick Modesty Checklist Before You Step Out

Getting ready to step out? Awesome! Before you actually head out, be sure to go over this quick modesty checklist. Your outfit might appear modest at first glance, but there are 5 things we suggest you double-check, to ensure you’re ready to step out.

Bend over forwards in front of a mirror, to ensure your blouse isn’t hanging too low. You may find that you might need to make adjustments, such as wearing a layering piece over or underneath.

 

Cross your legs, to ensure that your dress or skirt doesn’t crawl up too high.

 

Raise your hands, to ensure your shirt doesn’t come up towards the bottom. If it does, you may need to slip on a shirt extension.

 

Check all the buttons. Make sure there isn’t a large open gap between the buttons that reveal what’s underneath. If there is, you can close it up with safety pins, or wear a layering piece underneath.

 

See-Through Test. Can people see through your outfit in bright lights? If so, consider wearing a slip underneath, and next time, be more mindful of purchasing items of a different material or thickness.

 

Any other tips you would suggest? Let us know!

General Rules of Modesty for Men

General Rules of Modesty for Men

Ladies and gentlemen- modesty goes both ways. It is not just for the ladies. We’ve previously written about universal rules of modesty for women. That got us thinking- what about men? Are there general, universal rules to modesty (in terms of appearance) for men? The answer is YES!

Granted, it’s all relative. Interpretations of what is considered to be modest varies between different cultures, religions, and of course individuals. As we did our reading, we came across lots of parallels between different religious sects in terms of how men are expected to upkeep their appearance. And of course, we decided to share them with you!

The rules of modesty for men narrow down to two categories: physical appearance, and clothing/behavior. Yes, clothing is paired with behavior, because as we’ve previously written, there is a direct correlation between the two.

Physical Appearance

Men are generally expected to keep their hair short. Although the accepted length varies between religions and cultures, they’re generally expected to keep the hair on their head shorter than women. The modern trends of men shaving themselves smooth for the sake of vanity is generally frowned upon. In most instances, it’s a different story if it’s solely for hygienic reasons around particular parts of the body. It’s generally acceptable for men to maintain a smooth face, or keep facial hair- but the bottom line is whichever route they choose, they have to keep themselves nicely groomed.

Men are also expected to look after their health and fitness across the board. But how much is too much? Well, it’s okay for a man to exercise to be fit and gain some muscle. However, reactions get mixed when a man goes after obtaining an excessively muscular appearance- because again- that taps into vanity.

Things get interesting when it comes to jewelry and other accessories. There are mixed opinions on men wearing earrings and/or excessive jewelry such as gold chains. In most cases, it’s okay for a married man to wear a wedding band, and there are also cases where it would only be okay if the material isn’t made out of gold, because gold is considered too flashy. It is unanimously accepted for men to wear watches, but only if it isn’t heavily adorned. The same applies with religious symbols- he can wear it, just as long as the piece itself is very subtle.

Clothing and Behavior

Because men, in most cultures, play a more authoritative role in society, it is generally expected that they dress modestly to be taken seriously. You just wouldn’t expect an authoritative person to approach their role in clothing that is tight, revealing, or flashy. Elder men are expected to inspire and set an example of modesty for younger men, as well as women and children. This assists in encouragement of modest behavior as well.

Men are expected to speak and act in ways that clearly demonstrate righteousness. Yes, popular culture does make that difficult for younger men of today, which makes it that much more important for those that are close to them to motivate them to get on, and stay on the modest track.

 

Are their some other general rules of modesty for men that you know of? Let us know in the comments below!

There’s More To Modest Women Than What Meets The Eye

There’s More To Modest Women Than What Meets The Eye

People tend to have a lot of misconceptions when it comes to women who choose to dress in modest attire. Even though modest fashionistas don’t necessarily dress to attract attention to themselves, they still can’t escape the judgement that often comes their way.

We decided to run through some of the most common assumptions that are made, and debunk them. Because come on- they’re ridiculous!

Modest Women Are Only Able To Dress In One Way

Not true at all! Granted, the very definition of modesty does vary between individuals across all regions. Even so- there is generally a lot of wiggle room when it comes to different styles of individual pieces, and (obviously) when it comes to accessorizing. Modest clothing in general comes in a lot of varieties, and can easily be made to look fashionable, modern, trendy, and practical.

Women Who Dress Modestly Are Not Proud Of Their Bodies

To the contrary- they are very proud of their bodies, which is exactly why they don’t feel the need to expose it. Of course, modest women are just like everyone else, and may have their own insecurities about certain looks or features on them. However, they don’t generally find themselves suffering in order to stay covered. They discover ways to make it work for them, and rock it.

Modest Women Can’t Dress According To The Weather

Oh yes they absolutely can! It’s not all that difficult to find modest pieces that are airy and breathable for the summer, and pieces of mixed materials that retain body heat for the winter. In the fall and spring, they know how to layer up to stay warm and trendy, without looking frumpy.

Modest Women Don’t Want To Look Sexy

Well, yes and no. No, they don’t want to expose everything in order to be sexy. But that is because they know it comes from within. They wear what makes them feel cool, comfortable, and polished. In turn, that boosts their confidence, which is without a doubt, very intriguing.

Women Who Dress Modestly Are Feminists

Okay maybe, but what does that have to do with anything? There are feminists that bare all in the name of feminism, and there are feminists that cover all in the name of feminism. Women who dress modestly generally do so as a matter of choice and style, sometimes as recommended by their religions, and for their own personal empowerment.

Modest Women Are Prudes

That’s not a fair generalization. Anyone can be a reserved, shy, and naive person without sexual experience. And there are plenty of women who choose to stay covered, but are also very loud, proud, and sexually experienced. One has nothing to do with the other.

 

What else would you add to this list? Let us know in the comments below!

The Modest Style of Jackie Kennedy Onassis

The Modest Style of Jackie Kennedy Onassis

When one mentions Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, the first thoughts to come to mind would typically be her grace, charm, and modest style. It is for this reason the world still speaks of her with such high praise. She was a true fashion icon, and interestingly enough if you look at her pics, you will see that her style is evergreen. Images of her never appear dated. Jackie was, and forever will be a trendsetter in her own right.

Here’s a look at some of the trends she dominated. And when you’re ready to duplicate some of her casual styles without breaking the bank, have a look at our collection.

Did we miss anything? Let us know in the comments! What other trends did Jackie Onassis pioneer?

Oversized Glasses

Statement Dresses

Hair Covering

Pillbox Hat

Always Amazing Hair

Multistrand Pearls

Gloves

Statement Coats

Statement Belts

Capes

Top 9 Must Have Accessories For Your Modest Outfits

Top 9 Must Have Accessories For Your Modest Outfits

Accessories are awesome! You can’t deny the fact that accessories make everyone look and feel younger, because they allow you to achieve the look you’re going after. When rocked with confidence, they can turn any modest casual outfit into a chic fashionable ensemble, or even help you make older outfits appear more up-to-date. One of the best things about accessories is the fact you don’t have to spend big money on them to look fabulous.

When it comes to choosing accessories, most of us tend to think about it after purchasing outfits. There’s nothing wrong with that if you already have a massive collection of things to choose from. The best way to approach accessorizing is to keep three important points in mind.

  • Choose your accessories based on common elements with the outfit itself, such as color, texture, or style. Also, try to have accessories match with each other. For example, if you’re wearing silver earrings, opt for the bag with the silver buckle, and the shows with the silver embellishment. Don’t forget to also add some contrast into the mix, because sometimes outfits just don’t look right when they’re too “matchy-matchy.”
  • Choose accessory sizes that work well with your body size. For example, if you have a small frame, smaller and simpler accessories might suit you best. If you have a large frame, that may not necessarily mean you should use larger accessories- but try giving medium sized accessories a go.
  • Use accessories to attract or detract attention to different points. This one can get a little tricky, because you may not want to wear pieces that are too flashy on or near your chest and such. The goal is to stay modest, with a modern twist.

Here are our top nine accessory must have recommendations, which you can use as inspiration. Let us know if there are any you might like to add in the comments below.

Modest Shoes/Boots

Handbags

Eyeglasses and Sunglasses

Jewelry

Scarves, Shawls, Ties

Hats

Belts

Hosiery and Socks

Hair Ornaments

The Top 10 Modest Mainstream Celebrities

The Top 10 Modest Mainstream Celebrities

Would you typically associate mainstream celebrities with the word, concept, or even the idea of being modest? Offhand, you might say “no,” and to be honest, we don’t blame you. But there are many celebrities that managed to make their mark without flashing too much skin. Granted, the technicalities behind what is (and isn’t) considered modest does vary. Nonetheless, the following list of celebrities are often recognized for keeping it classy, and rocking modesty to the point it becomes a fashion statement of its own, so we decided to highlight some of them.

We’re sure there are many celebs we forgot to include here (hard to narrow it down to just 10!) Do you have a major modest celeb fashionista in mind that we didn’t include? Let us know in the comments!

Adele

Janelle Monae

Mary Kate and Ashley Olsen

Solange Knowles

Zooey Deschanel

Emma Stone

Kate Middleton

Florence Welch

Shailene Woodley

Rachel Zoe

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