Iconic Style: The Maxi Pencil Skirt

Iconic Style: The Maxi Pencil Skirt

When it comes to style, from winter to summer we all know women’s pencil skirts are going to be in style every. single. year. One of the quickest, easiest and most affordable ways to stay warm up is with maxi pencil skirts. Not just any pencil skirts though – we’re talking about soft, stretchy long skirts that keep you warm and flatter your shape at the same time.

Pencil skirts are an effortless item of women’s clothing that can be styled throughout warm and cold weather as well as day to night. Here are some styling ideas while keeping your unique and modest fashion sense in mind:

Stretch Fabrics:
Long modest pencil skirts are tricky! Fabrics with spandex or lycra will allow greater freedom of movement without openings or slits. For colder weather, heavier weight cotton or wool blends work great! For warm weather, natural breathable viscose or any structured and stretchy opaque material is ideal.
Layering for Interest – Leggings and Tights
Avoid pencil skirts with slits and add tights for comfort, texture and modesty
Wearing leggings or tights under the skirt can add comfort and warmth while staying true to your style.
For a streamlined look, wear a matching color for a monochromatic color scheme textured or ribbed tight to add subtle interest.
Balanced Proportions
Since a maxi pencil skirt is sleek and fitted, pair it with a slightly looser top to balance the silhouette:
Elbow-Length sweater: opt for a lightweight knit in neutral tones to match your minimal aesthetic.
For work: choose a Choose a tailored shirt in soft fabrics, tucked in or tied at the waist
In casual settings a tunic either semi-fitted or loose keeping it easy and comfortable
Footwear Pairings
Stay true to your love of sneakers, boot or sandals and modest dressing:
Sleek sneakers: clean white or neutral sneakers keep the look casual yet fun and polished.
Gladiator sandals or minimalist ankle-strap sandals work particularly well with the pencil skirt’s clean lines. Block or kitten heel shoes add a touch of sophistication – perfect for the office or dinner.
Keep Accessories Simple
A small cross body in neutral leather or canvas bag completes the outfit without overwhelming it.
Shorter necklaces complement women’s maxi skirts without “cropping” the silhouette.
Small hoops or drop earrings in geometric shapes, in gold or silver add an artistic touch without over-accessorizing.

While classic, the pencil skirt can feel modern and on-trend with updated details like drawstring waists, textured fabrics or asymmetrical hems. They provide full coverage, which makes them a favorite for those seeking modest yet stylish options. The length and fit strike a balance between demure and chic, and transition easily from casual to formal settings.

Easy Modest Winter Layering Ideas

Easy Modest Winter Layering Ideas

Winter is rearing its ugly head again this year and if there is anything I disliked (growing up in the Midwest) it’s the cold, a lot. I know I’m making the unavoidable sound so dire seeing as it rolls around every year yet I still dread it. It’s hard to look chic and sophisticated when you are wearing a ski hat, a bulky sweater, mittens and snow boots!

The thing is, I dress modestly and that includes no pants! Over the years I found it is truly is possible to stay warm in a skirt in the winter months – and still look stylish by layering! This winter there are plenty of different ways to layer your outfits to create some great on-trend looks. Whether you prefer light layers or heavy statement looks, there’s no end to the choices you have when it comes to creating a layered outfit this winter. Here are some of my go-to solutions:

Cropped Jackets over Long Layers:

Pair a cropped puffer or denim jacket over a long cardigan or tunic. This creates a visually interesting contrast of lengths and textures. Pair this with a pencil skirt either knee length or midi. Keep the waist area defined while staying modest and cozy.

Dresses over Pants:

Layer a cozy sweater dress over slim-fit trousers, leggings or fitted wide-leg knit pants. Add a belt to cinch the waist if needed. Fleece-lined leggings or tights under skirts or dresses add warmth without adding bulk.

Color Blocking:

Work a different take on color blocking by layering some colorful garments. Don’t shy away from bright hues this winter – adding splashes of color (even with black) to your look will liven up an outfit. Just remember to choose complementary colors and limit it to two or three hues

Oversized Scarves as Ponchos:

Use a large wool or cashmere scarf draped over your shoulders like a cape, securing it with a brooch or belt. These offer a cozy and stylish alternative to bulky coats, especially if you like a looser silhouette.

Skirted Leggings:

Opt for leggings with attached skirt overlays, paired with knee-high boots. Add a tailored coat for structure. This adds depth and keeps a sporty, cool aesthetic.

Layered Shirts and Sweaters:

Wear a long sleeve shell under a button-down shirt, then layer with a knit vest or oversized sweater. Keep the shirt’s collar and hem peeking out for dimension. The tailored layers and a smart combinations of textures can match your preferences for minimalism with a creative twist.

 

When looking at layering tips for winter, it always a good idea to do trial runs beforehand to make sure your outfits really work. These are just some ideas for you to consider when it comes to winter layering tips. Get excited about winter fashion and have a really “cool” winter!

The Timeless Modest Hemline –The Midi!

The Timeless Modest Hemline –The Midi!

Today midi skirts are a crucial part of any woman’s wardrobe. Sitting at a demure length, there is something ever so elegant and sophisticated about this hemline. Midi skirts typically fall below the knee and above the ankle, a length that flatters a variety of shapes and heights. The cut elongates the legs and creates a polished silhouette. Whether opting for a fitted number like a pencil skirt or a flared A-line look there is a design for every mood and occasion.

The midi skirt is a style that has very much come back into our clothing wardrobes over the past few years. This one style however came into our wardrobes in the early twentieth century and has never really left. Ever since Coco Chanel rose hem lines throughout World War One, women have been more open-minded about fashion and the midi skirt was one of the first examples of just that. There are a variety of ways to wear the midi skirt.

Of course it depends on the vibe you’re going for:

Pencil Midi Skirt:

  • Sleek and structured, giving a polished, professional look.
  • Works well with tunic tops and blouses for a streamlined silhouette.
  • Pair it with sneakers for a modern touch, or ankle boots for a more classic vibe.
  • Stretchy or slightly looser fits can still provide comfort while maintaining modesty.

A-Line Midi Skirt:

  • Flowy and relaxed, it offers a softer, more casual or romantic aesthetic.
  • Great for achieving a cottage core-inspired vibe with a cooler, minimalistic edge.
  • Practical for different activities, allowing freedom of movement while maintaining a stylish appearance.
  • The midi length (mid-calf) provides excellent coverage, making it a modest option.

A-Line midi skirts might resonate more as they lean into an effortlessly chic, creative aesthetic. However, a midi pencil in neutral colors could also work beautifully for work or the office! For activities ranging from running errands to work meetings, midi skirts strike the perfect balance between ease and sophistication.

Seeing RED!  Is Red Clothing Modest?

Seeing RED! Is Red Clothing Modest?

What is the deal with red clothing? I’ve heard that red clothing is forbidden for women to wear because it’s immodest. Some recent studies confirmed that men are more attracted to women in red. So that means it’s prohibited, right? In some cultures or communities, red can be seen as bold or attention-grabbing, which may contrast with traditional views of modesty.

Some women prefer neutral tones, so red might feel a bit outside of their comfort zone. Experimenting with muted or deeper shades of red like burgundy or maroon, can feel more understated while still adding some warmth to wardrobe.

Red is sometimes viewed as not modest because of its associations with boldness, attention-seeking, and sensuality. Here are some reasons why red might be considered brazen or too forward in certain contexts:

  • Psychological Impact: Red is a highly stimulating color that is often linked to passion, energy, and assertiveness.
  • Cultural Perceptions: In some cultures and religious traditions, red has specific meanings related to power, sexuality, or celebration such as in China. For somber occasions, red may feel inappropriate for situations requiring restraint. Because blood is red, the color is often associated with horror!
  • Historical Associations: Historically, red has often been worn by figures seeking visibility or authority, such as nobility or entertainers. A red dress was sometime seen as provocative or scandalous like Scarlet’s red dress in Gone with Wind! Red’s “reputation” may clash with the notion of modest dressing, which prioritizes not standing out.
  • Gendered Symbolism: Red is sometimes associated with femininity and romantic allure, particularly in fashion and media, where it is often linked to confidence or seduction. This symbolism can make red seem too bold especially in conservative or religious settings.

Despite these perceptions, color is subjective, and red can still be worn depending on the style, fit, and personal or community standards. Here’s how red can be subtlety styled:

  • Muted Shades of Red: Opting for deeper or softer shades like burgundy, wine, or aubergine can tone down the boldness of red while still incorporating it into a modern wardrobe. These shades have a more subdued feel and a more calming aesthetic.
  • Balanced Styling: Pairing neutral tones like gray, black, or beige can balance the boldness of red. For example, a red top with a long skirt in a neutral color can create a more understated, modest look.
  • Focusing on Fit: Wearing loose-fitting red clothing rather than tight or revealing garments can ensure that the focus remains on the style of the outfit, rather than the attention-grabbing nature of the color.
  • Red can be worn as an accent color in accessories instead a clothing item. Jewelry, scarves, belts and shoes in red can be tasteful alternative options and make a great fashion statement.

Would you ever consider incorporating red into your wardrobe, or is it too far from your aesthetic?

Black Friday Online Shopping Tips!

Black Friday Online Shopping Tips!

Can you believe it’s the end of November already?

Do you know what that means? Thanksgiving, Christmas, Chanukah, Kwanza, etc. and time that I can see all my family or friends and eat lots of food without being judged. There’s that, sure.

Know what else?

Black Friday and Cyber Monday shopping deals! I love to do all my shopping online! No crowded stores or stress and I can find just what I want at my fingertips. Here are 6 tips to help you keep calm and shop efficiently and make the most out of your online shopping:

Make a List and Determine a Budget

  • Who is on your gift list? Do they wear modest clothing or special sizes?
  • Write down what you need to avoid impulse buys. Include gift ideas, personal needs, or big-ticket items.
  • Set a Budget: Decide how much you’re willing to spend overall and on specific items.
  • Create Accounts in Advance: Register on your favorite sites and save your shipping/payment details to speed up checkout.
  • Sign Up for Emails: Many retailers send early deals and discount codes to subscribers.

Do Your Research

  • Start Early: Deals often start the week of Black Friday, so check early access sales.
  • Use Wish list Features: Add desired items to wish lists or carts to monitor price changes.
  • Use Social Media, Instagram Facebook, YouTube and X advertise their BLACK Friday deals too.
  • Check Shipping dates and fees.
  • Check Return Policies: Ensure the store allows easy returns or exchanges in case the gift doesn’t fit or isn’t to their liking.

Lookout for Scams or Disreputable Websites

  • Stick to well-known retailers or verified online marketplaces.
  • Look for “https://” and a padlock icon in the URL to ensure the site is secure.
  • Use Secure Networks: Avoid shopping on public Wi-Fi; use a private, secure internet connection.
  • Read reviews to gauge reliability and product quality. (Don’t forget Seller Reviews too)
  • Look for a physical address and contact information.
  • Beware of deals too good to be true.

Stay Organized

  • Track Your Orders: Save confirmation emails and track shipping dates to ensure everything arrives on time.
  • Use a Password Manager: Securely save your login details to avoid resetting passwords last minute.
  • Avoid Buyer’s Remorse: Sleep on big purchases overnight if you’re unsure; many deals last through Cyber Monday.
  • Use a Shopping Email Address: Create a dedicated email for newsletters, deals, and confirmations to keep things separate and organized.

Don’t Forget Yourself!

  • Catch up on some of fall’s top trends that you missed out on.
  • Now is the time to get that cute and comfy dress while it is discounted and in your size!
  • Have a consolidated wish list of your own on a word document with links to those items
  • Shop your closet first, don’t duplicate items you already have or have never worn.
  • Know Your Key Measurements: Bust, waist, hips, inseam, and shoulder width.
  • Pay attention to reviews from people with a similar body type to yours.

 

Be Flexible

  • Have a “B” List of alternative gifts
  • Be flexible with colors and patterns, brands or shopping sites.
  • Consider less-known or local brands that offer good quality but might not yet be mainstream
  • Adjust your budget as necessary
  • Consider Gift cards for the person who is hard to buy for.

A few other “Pro” tips:

Take breaks away from your computer and don’t forget self-care. It’s good to price compare, but don’t overdo it and make yourself crazy in the process.  Celebrate Small Wins: Appreciate the deals you got rather than stressing over missed ones. By staying organized and focused, you can make Black Friday online shopping a smooth and enjoyable experience!

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