The Timeless Modest Hemline –The Midi!

The Timeless Modest Hemline –The Midi!

Today midi skirts are a crucial part of any woman’s wardrobe. Sitting at a demure length, there is something ever so elegant and sophisticated about this hemline. Midi skirts typically fall below the knee and above the ankle, a length that flatters a variety of shapes and heights. The cut elongates the legs and creates a polished silhouette. Whether opting for a fitted number like a pencil skirt or a flared A-line look there is a design for every mood and occasion.

The midi skirt is a style that has very much come back into our clothing wardrobes over the past few years. This one style however came into our wardrobes in the early twentieth century and has never really left. Ever since Coco Chanel rose hem lines throughout World War One, women have been more open-minded about fashion and the midi skirt was one of the first examples of just that. There are a variety of ways to wear the midi skirt.

Of course it depends on the vibe you’re going for:

Pencil Midi Skirt:

  • Sleek and structured, giving a polished, professional look.
  • Works well with tunic tops and blouses for a streamlined silhouette.
  • Pair it with sneakers for a modern touch, or ankle boots for a more classic vibe.
  • Stretchy or slightly looser fits can still provide comfort while maintaining modesty.

A-Line Midi Skirt:

  • Flowy and relaxed, it offers a softer, more casual or romantic aesthetic.
  • Great for achieving a cottage core-inspired vibe with a cooler, minimalistic edge.
  • Practical for different activities, allowing freedom of movement while maintaining a stylish appearance.
  • The midi length (mid-calf) provides excellent coverage, making it a modest option.

A-Line midi skirts might resonate more as they lean into an effortlessly chic, creative aesthetic. However, a midi pencil in neutral colors could also work beautifully for work or the office! For activities ranging from running errands to work meetings, midi skirts strike the perfect balance between ease and sophistication.

Seeing RED!  Is Red Clothing Modest?

Seeing RED! Is Red Clothing Modest?

What is the deal with red clothing? I’ve heard that red clothing is forbidden for women to wear because it’s immodest. Some recent studies confirmed that men are more attracted to women in red. So that means it’s prohibited, right? In some cultures or communities, red can be seen as bold or attention-grabbing, which may contrast with traditional views of modesty.

Some women prefer neutral tones, so red might feel a bit outside of their comfort zone. Experimenting with muted or deeper shades of red like burgundy or maroon, can feel more understated while still adding some warmth to wardrobe.

Red is sometimes viewed as not modest because of its associations with boldness, attention-seeking, and sensuality. Here are some reasons why red might be considered brazen or too forward in certain contexts:

  • Psychological Impact: Red is a highly stimulating color that is often linked to passion, energy, and assertiveness.
  • Cultural Perceptions: In some cultures and religious traditions, red has specific meanings related to power, sexuality, or celebration such as in China. For somber occasions, red may feel inappropriate for situations requiring restraint. Because blood is red, the color is often associated with horror!
  • Historical Associations: Historically, red has often been worn by figures seeking visibility or authority, such as nobility or entertainers. A red dress was sometime seen as provocative or scandalous like Scarlet’s red dress in Gone with Wind! Red’s “reputation” may clash with the notion of modest dressing, which prioritizes not standing out.
  • Gendered Symbolism: Red is sometimes associated with femininity and romantic allure, particularly in fashion and media, where it is often linked to confidence or seduction. This symbolism can make red seem too bold especially in conservative or religious settings.

Despite these perceptions, color is subjective, and red can still be worn depending on the style, fit, and personal or community standards. Here’s how red can be subtlety styled:

  • Muted Shades of Red: Opting for deeper or softer shades like burgundy, wine, or aubergine can tone down the boldness of red while still incorporating it into a modern wardrobe. These shades have a more subdued feel and a more calming aesthetic.
  • Balanced Styling: Pairing neutral tones like gray, black, or beige can balance the boldness of red. For example, a red top with a long skirt in a neutral color can create a more understated, modest look.
  • Focusing on Fit: Wearing loose-fitting red clothing rather than tight or revealing garments can ensure that the focus remains on the style of the outfit, rather than the attention-grabbing nature of the color.
  • Red can be worn as an accent color in accessories instead a clothing item. Jewelry, scarves, belts and shoes in red can be tasteful alternative options and make a great fashion statement.

Would you ever consider incorporating red into your wardrobe, or is it too far from your aesthetic?

Black Friday Online Shopping Tips!

Black Friday Online Shopping Tips!

Can you believe it’s the end of November already?

Do you know what that means? Thanksgiving, Christmas, Chanukah, Kwanza, etc. and time that I can see all my family or friends and eat lots of food without being judged. There’s that, sure.

Know what else?

Black Friday and Cyber Monday shopping deals! I love to do all my shopping online! No crowded stores or stress and I can find just what I want at my fingertips. Here are 6 tips to help you keep calm and shop efficiently and make the most out of your online shopping:

Make a List and Determine a Budget

  • Who is on your gift list? Do they wear modest clothing or special sizes?
  • Write down what you need to avoid impulse buys. Include gift ideas, personal needs, or big-ticket items.
  • Set a Budget: Decide how much you’re willing to spend overall and on specific items.
  • Create Accounts in Advance: Register on your favorite sites and save your shipping/payment details to speed up checkout.
  • Sign Up for Emails: Many retailers send early deals and discount codes to subscribers.

Do Your Research

  • Start Early: Deals often start the week of Black Friday, so check early access sales.
  • Use Wish list Features: Add desired items to wish lists or carts to monitor price changes.
  • Use Social Media, Instagram Facebook, YouTube and X advertise their BLACK Friday deals too.
  • Check Shipping dates and fees.
  • Check Return Policies: Ensure the store allows easy returns or exchanges in case the gift doesn’t fit or isn’t to their liking.

Lookout for Scams or Disreputable Websites

  • Stick to well-known retailers or verified online marketplaces.
  • Look for “https://” and a padlock icon in the URL to ensure the site is secure.
  • Use Secure Networks: Avoid shopping on public Wi-Fi; use a private, secure internet connection.
  • Read reviews to gauge reliability and product quality. (Don’t forget Seller Reviews too)
  • Look for a physical address and contact information.
  • Beware of deals too good to be true.

Stay Organized

  • Track Your Orders: Save confirmation emails and track shipping dates to ensure everything arrives on time.
  • Use a Password Manager: Securely save your login details to avoid resetting passwords last minute.
  • Avoid Buyer’s Remorse: Sleep on big purchases overnight if you’re unsure; many deals last through Cyber Monday.
  • Use a Shopping Email Address: Create a dedicated email for newsletters, deals, and confirmations to keep things separate and organized.

Don’t Forget Yourself!

  • Catch up on some of fall’s top trends that you missed out on.
  • Now is the time to get that cute and comfy dress while it is discounted and in your size!
  • Have a consolidated wish list of your own on a word document with links to those items
  • Shop your closet first, don’t duplicate items you already have or have never worn.
  • Know Your Key Measurements: Bust, waist, hips, inseam, and shoulder width.
  • Pay attention to reviews from people with a similar body type to yours.

 

Be Flexible

  • Have a “B” List of alternative gifts
  • Be flexible with colors and patterns, brands or shopping sites.
  • Consider less-known or local brands that offer good quality but might not yet be mainstream
  • Adjust your budget as necessary
  • Consider Gift cards for the person who is hard to buy for.

A few other “Pro” tips:

Take breaks away from your computer and don’t forget self-care. It’s good to price compare, but don’t overdo it and make yourself crazy in the process.  Celebrate Small Wins: Appreciate the deals you got rather than stressing over missed ones. By staying organized and focused, you can make Black Friday online shopping a smooth and enjoyable experience!

Best Holiday Present for the Modest Woman (Including You)!

Best Holiday Present for the Modest Woman (Including You)!

Starting to stress about what to get for the modest women in your life? Look no farther than our guide to holiday gifts for her. Choosing the best holiday gift for the modest woman involves selecting items that fit her style while respecting her preference for modesty. Here, you’ll find 10 great holiday gift ideas for just about anyone on your list!

  • Maxi Dress: Select a maxi dress with a modest neckline, long sleeves, and a suitable length. Look for elegant fabrics and classic colors.
  • Long Cardigan or Duster: A long cardigan or duster in a neutral shade can be a versatile layering piece. It complements a range of outfits while providing coverage and warmth.
  • A-Line Skirt: Choose an A-line skirt that covers the knee for a modest and timeless look. Opt for fabrics and colors that suits her style.
  • Jumpsuit: Look for a jumpsuit with a modest tailored cut, such as a higher neckline and longer pants. Jumpsuits can be both fashionable and practical.
  • Flowy Blouse or Tunic: Choose a flowy blouse or tunic with a crew neckline and three quarter sleeves. Neutral colors or subtle patterns can enhance its versatility.
  • Modest Swimwear: Consider a swimsuit, such as a swim dress or a swim skirt with attached shorts or leggings. Look for simple designs in her preferred colors.Modest Swimwear
  • Classic Turtleneck: A classic turtleneck in a comfortable knit is a versatile and cozy choice for colder seasons. It can be paired with skirts or trousers.
  • Activewear: If she loves to exercise look for modest activewear with stretch fabrics. This could include long-sleeve tops, loose-fitting pants, and a sports head covering.
  • Loungewear Set: Everyone loves comfy stylish loungewear!  A pajama set with long sleeves and a fluffy warm robe can be great for relaxing at home.
  • Elegant Jacket or Cardigan: A sophisticated cardigan or jacket in a lush fabric or faux leather can be a chic way to add warmth and interest to her outfits.

When selecting clothing, pay attention to her size, preferred colors, and style preferences. By choosing classic, timeless pieces you can ensure the gift will be both thoughtful and practical for her modest wardrobe. What is the best holiday clothing gift you ever received? 

 

Simplify Your Life with a Capsule Closet!

Simplify Your Life with a Capsule Closet!

Simplify Your Life with a Capsule Closet!

Do you agonize in the morning what to wear for that day?  One simple solution might be a capsule closet, also known as a capsule wardrobe! This is a select collection of clothing items that are versatile, timeless, and well-coordinated as well modest! The idea is simple, your wardrobe has a curated selection of essential pieces that can be mixed and matched to create a variety of outfits. The goal is to maximize versatility, alleviate stress, minimize clutter, and promote a more intentional approach to dressing.

The basic capsule closet usually begins with essential clothing items in neutral colors. Neutrals typically include colors like black, white, gray, beige, navy and muted tones. Additionally, neutral colors are known for their ability to adapt well to different seasons and occasions.

Black: Timeless and versatile, black can be dressed up or down for a variety of occasions. A basic modest black pencil skirt or the “Little Black Dress” are an essential for any capsule wardrobe

White: Clean and crisp, white goes with everything and adds a fresh touch to your outfits.  White Layering tops and T-shirts are indispensable for casual outfits and the workplace dress code.

Gray: A neutral color that complements both dark and light tones, often called the “new” black. Heather Greys in deep or pale shades in tunics and skirts are a great alternative to plain grey.

Navy Blue: A classic alternative to black, navy is sophisticated and pairs well with many colors. Skirts or pants in navy or denim are timeless items that ensures longevity and remain relevant season after season.

Beige: A warm neutral that works well for all seasons and complements other colors. Often vilified as boring beige, beige can vary from almond to taupe to walnut and is a staple in any capsule closet. Cardigans, layering pieces and skirts in beige are a great option to white and can be used to create a range of outfits

To add personality and flair to your outfits, you can incorporate accessories in bold and vibrant colors. Here are some bright colored accessories to consider for a capsule closet: scarves, statement jewelry, handbags, belts and shoes. These will add lively pops of color with and encourages you to identify and refine your personal style.  Mixing and matching neutrals with bold saturated colors helps define your wardrobe, avoiding unnecessary clutter and focusing on items you love that make you feel confident.

A capsule closet offers several other benefits that contribute to an efficient and sensible approach to personal style. Some key advantages are time-saving, reduced decision fatigue, space saving, a focus on your personal fashion taste, and an appreciation for favorite clothing items. With a curated selection of versatile pieces, getting dressed becomes quicker and easier. You spend less time pondering what to wear, allowing for a smooth morning routine.

What would you include in your capsule wardrobe?

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